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Face Dynamics: From
Conceptualization to Measurement
Ho, D. Y. F. (1994). In
Ting-Toomey, S. (Ed.), The challenge of facework (pp.
269-286). New York: SUNY Press.
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In this chapter, I propose
to take a journey through the territory of research in face
dynamics. The cognitive map for this territory is based on two
strands of analysis previously conducted, one concerning the concept
of face (Ho, 1976), and the other concerning the methodological
implications of relational orientation (Ho, 1991).
The thesis of relational
orientation, or relationalism (a newly coined term), is that
social behavior invariably takes place in relational contexts,
regardless of social class or cultural variations. Accordingly, the
unit of analysis is not the individual, but the
individual-in-relations. By relational contexts, I mean social,
particularly interpersonal, contexts. Among the most important
relational contexts are those involving role and/or status
relationships. Relational orientation confronts the bias toward
methodological individualism in contemporary mainstream psychology.
It makes a demand on the theorist to consider how social
relationships are defined, before attempting to interpret the
behavior of individuals. An adequate explanation entails,
therefore, making explicit the normative expectations and behavioral
rules governing interpersonal relationships.
The intellectual tools
employed in theory building guided by methodological relationalism
are relational concepts, such as reciprocity, interdependence,
interrelatedness, and dyads. More so than individualistic concepts
(e.g., actor/actress, ego, and self), relational concepts lend
themselves to analytic exercises that reflect the relational
contexts within which social behavior takes place. Face is a
relational concept par excellence. Indeed, the development of
relationalism owes much to analytic studies of the face concept.
A Relational Conception of Face
Dynamics
As a first step, a
clarification of the scientific vocabulary concerning face would be
useful. I propose to use the term face dynamics to refer
generically to social processes, directly observable or inferred,
involved in face enhancement, maintenance, protection, restoration,
and derogation. Interactions directly observable may be called
simply face behavior; aspects of interaction not directly
observable are inferred from face behavior. Of particular interest
are the dynamics arising from: (a) incongruences among a person's
self-concept, the projection of his/her social self in the public
domain, and his/her social image publicly and collectively perceived
by others, and (b) discrepancies between the face claimed by a
person from others and the face extended to him/her by others.
The term facework is
more restricted in meaning than face dynamics. As used by Goffman
(1955), facework refers to the subtle style in interpersonal
encounters, found in all societies, calculated to avoid personal
embarrassment, or loss of poise, and to maintain for others an
impression of self-respect. I shall restrict using this term to
refer specifically to the strategies, social maneuvers, and/or
coping mechanisms an actor/actress employs in face dynamics.
A conceptualization of face
dynamics based on relationalism gives particular emphasis to three
aspects: (a) face as a field concept, (b) reciprocity, and (c)
social influence and social control.
Face as a field concept
Accepting that the unit of
analysis is the individual-in-relations, the relational context
within which face dynamics take place has to be taken into account.
For instance, face may be lost not only from one's failure to meet
social expectations, but also from the failure of: (a) people
closely associated with him/her to meet expectations, and (b) others
to act in accordance with one's expectations of how one and one's
associates should be treated. That is, face may be lost not only
from one's own actions but also from the actions of other people.
This line of inquiry leads to a delineation of social consequences
over which an actor/actress has little or no control and for which
he/she may have no responsibility.
Face is a field concept: It
takes full recognition of the individual's embeddedness in the
social network. A methodological consequence is that the analysis
of face behavior, even when pertaining to a single individual, must
extend its domain to include: (a) actions by the individual, either
self-initiated or in response to those of others; (b) actions by
other people closely associated with the individual; (c) actions
directed at the individual by people with whom the individual is
interacting; (d) actions directed at the individual by people
closely associated with those with whom the individual is
interacting; and, finally, (e) actions directed at people closely
associated with the individual by those with whom the individual is
interacting directly or indirectly.
Clearly the domain of social
actions to be included for analysis is more encompassing and more
complicated than what has traditionally been envisioned. It is a
dynamic field of forces and counterforces in which the stature and
significance of the individual appear to have diminished. The
individual, no longer at center stage, is not the measure of all
things; and the world is not seen through his/her eyes. This
altered perspective cannot be characterized by anything short of
psychological decentering, as dramatic as the historic change of
worldview from the Ptolemaic to the Copernican.
Relationalism does not
negate the individual, but it does counter egoism. It considers the
perspective of each actor/actress; more importantly, it insists on
the necessity of including the participation of others in the
individual's perspective. We may use an analogy from music. One
might say that the ultimate self-expression is the solo virtuoso
playing without accompaniment and without an audience. But, even
here, the participation of the audience in the mind of the virtuoso
is an integral part of his/her musicianship. The ensemble
exemplifies a relational arrangement--one, unlike the orchestra, is
not hierarchically organized under the direction of a conductor.
The individuality of each member's musicianship has to be
subjugated. Yet individuality reemerges collectively to mark the
ensemble's unique identity, not reducible to the sum of its members'
musicianship.
Reciprocity
Inherent in face dynamics,
reciprocity concerns the need to show regard for not only one's face
but also the face of others. Each interacting party expects to be
given face by others and is expected to give face to others.
Indeed, a failure to give face to others may occasion a loss of
one's own face. This idea of reciprocity is embodied in Ho's (1976)
definition of face: "In terms of two interacting parties, face is
the reciprocated compliance, respect, and/or deference that each
party expects from, and extends to, the other party" (p. 883).
Ting-Toomey (1988) also speaks of the self-other dimension in her
conceptualization of facework: self-face concern and other-face
concern (the other dimension being positive-face and
negative-face). Unfortunately, most investigators, especially those
from Western cultures preoccupied with individualism, have not
recognized the importance of other-face concern. It must be added,
though, a conception of face dynamics which gives full recognition
to reciprocity would be met with a congenial reception by
communication researchers (e.g., Tracy, 1990)--for whom a
nonrelational conception would be quite unnatural indeed.
Social influence and social
control
Having face means both commanding
social influence over others as well as being influenced by
others--another aspect of reciprocity. A person who has face is in
a position to exercise considerable influence, even control, over
others in direct or indirect ways; at the same time, he/she is under
a strong constraint to act in accordance with the requirements for
maintaining his/her face. The more face, the greater the social
visibility and public scrutiny over one's actions, and hence the
stronger the constraint imposed on one's actions. Examples are
abundant: candidates seeking high public office in the United
States run the risk of having their private life, past and present,
exposed to microscopic scrutiny by the public.
Thus the concern for face
exerts a reciprocated constraint upon each member of the social
network. It delimits individual volition: much of the time, the
individual's actions are dictated by the necessity of meeting the
expectation of others. In short, the concern for face is a
pervasive social sanction; it generates pressure toward conformity;
and it is a powerful mechanism underlying other-directedness, that
is, acting in ways that reflect a high degree of sensitivity for how
one's actions are perceived and reacted to by others.
It has often been said that
the avoidance of losing face is an overriding concern in Asian
cultures. What about Westerners? In response to this question,
Riesman's (1950) characterization of other-directedness in American
society comes to mind. Other-directed people are said to have a
paramount need to seek approval and direction from, and hence the
tendency to act in conformity with, their contemporaries, especially
their peers. In the Asian context, other-directedness differs from
Riesman's characterization in one fundamental respect. In American
society, the driving motive is to seek approval, recognition, and
popularity. In Asian societies, the imperative is to avoid
disapproval. The dynamics involved in avoiding disapproval versus
seeking approval are quite dissimilar. Here we are reminded of the
basic difference between gaining face and losing face (Ho, 1976).
Face is not lost merely on account of a failure to gain it; and
regaining face that has been lost is not gaining face, but merely a
restoration of the face to which the individual is originally
entitled. To gain face is a intricate social game; the
actor/actress may choose not to play it. But to maintain face, to
avoid losing face, and to regain face lost are essential for
effective social functioning.
From Conceptualization to
Measurement
Definition
A critical review of the
literature reveals that two distinctions in the definition of face
should be made explicit. First, face may be defined in terms of the
projection of one's social self in the public domain; that is,
aspects of one's self that a person reveals to others. Thus,
Goffman (1955) defines face as "the positive social value a person
effectively claims for himself by the line others assume he has
taken during a particular contact. Face is an image of self
delineated in terms of approved social attributes" (p. 213). But
face may also be defined in terms of one's social image that is
publicly and collectively perceived by others--an image is not
necessarily the same as that one reveals to others. Clearly, these
are two different approaches to definition, and hence to
measurement. Correspondingly, the face that a person expects or
claims for himself/herself from others should be distinguished from
the face accorded him/her by others. Potential conflicts arise when
these two are discrepant. This is a gold mine for research--one
that has not been fully exploited.
Second, face may be defined
situationally, referring to specific instances of social encounter.
Goffman (1955) states: "The person's face is clearly something that
is not lodged in or on his body, but rather something that is
diffusely located in the flow of events" (p. 214). His seminal
ideas have generated research on facework and several closely
related topics, such as embarrassment (e.g., Edelmann, 1990),
impression management (e.g., Leary & Kowalski, 1990), and
negotiation in conflict situations (e.g., Ting-Toomey, 1988;
Ting-Toomey & Cole, 1990). Nevertheless, it is important to point
out that Goffman's conception of face differs from the Chinese
conception, which is not restricted to situational encounters.
According to the Chinese
conception, face may be defined in terms of the more enduring,
publicly perceived attributes that function to locate a person's
position in his/her social network. Thus defined, a person's face
is largely consistent over time and across situations, unless there
is a significant change in public perceptions of his/her conduct,
performance, or social status. It goes wherever the person goes,
and would not change, for instance, on account of a change in jobs
that signify no change in status. As Ho (1976) states: "Face is
attached to persons"(p. 874)--not externally to their position,
rank, or office. It would then be meaningful to ask how much face a
given individual has and what changes in his/her face are perceived,
apart from specific social events. (But it would not be meaningful
to ask how much face is attached to the individual's rank of
office.) This question would lead to a fruitful line of
investigation, which researchers have yet to pursue in depth.
Although face is attached to
persons, it is not a personality variable (Ho, 1976). Unlike
personality, face is not to be regarded as a construct pertaining to
personal attributes inferred from behavior. Measurements of face
are sociometric, not psychological, in nature. They would not be
based upon a direct study of the individual; rather, a person's face
would be ascertained by conducting inquiries on the opinions that
others have of him/her. That is, a person's face is assessed in
terms of what others think of the person. The assessment does not
include what the person thinks of himself/herself (i.e.,
self-perceptions), but may include what the person thinks other
people think of him/her. Of course, misjudgments may be made, and
will act as a source of strain in one's interpersonal relationships.
The two distinctions
identified above have direct methodological implications for the
measurement of face, to which I now turn.
Quantification
How much face does a person
have? On one occasion, I raised this question in a graduate seminar
where face was discussed. A knowledgeable Westerner familiar with
the scholarly literature on face, also a contributor to this book,
said: "The question doesn't make sense." I responded: "You must
have been misled by Goffman." If the question were put to a Chinese
audience, no one would have difficulty understanding it.
Furthermore, it would be immediately understood that the question
demands two answers: one concerning how much face a person
expects/claims from others, and the other concerning how much face
people give him/her (or how much face the person receives from
others).
Nonetheless, face is a
universal. As Ho (1976) argues: "While it is true that the
conceptualization of what constitutes face and the rules governing
face behavior vary considerably across cultures, the concern for
face is invariant" (pp. 881-882). What is culturally invariant is
the inevitability of judgment; and, therefore, anyone who does not
wish to renounce the social nature of his/her existence must show a
regard for face. Of course, the criteria by which a person's face
is judged are rooted in cultural values, and are hence culture
specific. The challenge now is to demonstrate how face may be
measured in different cultural contexts. In the following, I
outline a scheme for the steps to be followed in face measurements.
The scheme is stated at a sufficiently high level of generality so
that it is invariant across cultures, that is, applicable regardless
of cultural variation.
Defining a domain of
attributes. To ask how much face a person has is to quantity
face. Quantification makes sense when face is defined in terms of
the more enduring, publicly perceived attributes that locate a
person's standing in his/her social network, unrestricted to
specific social encounters--that is, defined according to the
Chinese conception. In general, a person's face is a function of
his/her standing or social position within a defined group. The
higher the standing, the greater the claim or entitlement to face.
The question of how much face a person has then translates into one
concerning a person's respectability and social influence that
he/she can exercise over others. This would be a concrete, yet
rare, example of following a conception that is non-Western in
origin in behavioral science--there being nothing preordained about
Western conceptions.
In operational terms, the
measurement problem translates into one of defining a domain of
attributes that may be considered important for face judgments in
various cultural contexts. This domain includes the following
classes of attributes.
1. Biographical variables,
such as age, sex, birth order, and generational rank.
2. Relational attributes
based on birth, blood or marriage ties.
3. Social status indicators
based on personal effort or achievement: (a) educational
attainment, occupational status, and income; and (b) social
connections and influence; membership in clubs, associations, and/or
other organizations.
4. Social status indicators
not based on personal effort or achievement, such as wealth and/or
social connections acquired through marriage.
5. Formal title, position,
rank, or office acquired through personal effort or awarded in
recognition of personal achievement.
6. Formal title, position,
rank, or office acquired through ascription (e.g., inheritance).
7. Personal reputation
based on the amoral (e.g., skill-related or task-oriented) aspects
of social performance.
8. Personal reputation
based on moral character, judged on the basis of personal conduct.
9. Integrity of social
being: freedom from stigmata.
The domain defined is by no
means exhaustive. Even then, it is far more inclusive than the
traditional indices of socioeconomic class (i.e., education,
occupation, and income--3a). Again, it illustrates how the face
concept is more inclusive than, and hence cannot be reduce to,
socioeconomic status; and it points to the inadequacy of relying on
the traditional indices when it comes to face research.
The attributes in the domain
may be recategorized in different ways; for instance, along the
intrinsic-extrinsic, achievement-ascription, moral-amoral, and
individual-relational dimensions. Classes 7 through 9 are
attributes intrinsic to the individual; classes 1 through 6 are
attributes extrinsic to the individual. Classes 3, 5, 7, and 8 are
based on personal effort, achievement, and/or conduct; classes 1, 2,
4, 6, and 9 (to be explained later) are based on ascription. Class
7 concerns evaluative judgments of personal conduct made on the
basis of moral criteria (e.g., good vs. evil); Class 8 concerns
evaluative judgments of social performance made on the basis of
amoral criteria (e.g., efficiency, skill, and competence). Finally,
comparing class 3a and class 3b illustrates most clearly the
distinction between individual (e.g., education) and relational
attributes (e.g., social connections).
The last class, what I call
integrity of social being (9), requires a more extended
discussion. It is more encompassing than moral character, because
it includes judgments of actions or circumstances not under the
individual's control and hence beyond the domain of personal
responsibility. Here we are concerned with the avoidance of
something negative in the extreme, rather than the pursuit of
something positive. Consider the case of a woman who has been raped
(or widely suspected of being raped) in a culture where chastity is
considered more important than life; a patient who has fallen victim
to a hideous disease, like leprosy in ancient times and AIDS in
contemporary life; or being a member of a ethnic minority group that
is considered inferior by the community. In each of these cases,
the negative consequence amounts to no less than a massive assault
on the person's social identity that renders him/her "unclean" in
the eyes of others. The person's face is violated, shamed, and
stigmatized; his/her social being has lost its integrity. Face is
thus far more profound than just politeness, embarrassment, or
impression management--the favorite topics of researchers. At rock
bottom, face as the integrity of one's social being is not something
that has to be earned, but is an inalienable right to human dignity.
Of course, different
cultures attach varying degrees of importance to different
attributes; and the attachment may change within cultures as a
result of cultural change through time. These are facts that
invite, respectively, synchronic and diachronic cross-cultural
research. A comparison between Chinese and American cultures would
be illuminating. Given its traditional-collectivistic values,
Chinese culture would put more weight than American culture on
generational rank (1), birth, blood or marriage ties (2), social
connections (3, 4), and formal title, position, rank, or office (5,
6). American culture, which champions individualism, would put the
most weight on attributes that reflect personal effort or
achievement (3, 5) and personal reputation (7). A permissible
generalization is that Chinese culture tends to emphasize relational
attributes, whereas American culture tends to emphasize individual
attributes. Moral character (8) is vital in both cultures; but it
would be rated higher in importance, reflecting a greater emphasis
on moral judgments than on evaluating the amoral aspects of social
performance (7), in Chinese than in American culture. (Note that
this statement says nothing about moral behavior per se in either
culture.) Finally, under ordinary circumstances, everyone is
entitled to integrity of social being (9) in both cultures.
Mien-tzu and lien.
In the literature on face, many authors have accepted Hu's (1944)
distinction between two Chinese concepts of face, based on two
different sets of judgment criteria: mien-tzu achieved
through success and ostentation, and lien, representing the
confidence of society in the integrity of one's moral character.
Concerning this distinction, three points should be made. First,
conceptually we can distinguish one class of attributes considered
important for face judgments from another. The moral and the amoral
(e.g., success and ostentation) attributes, for instance, may be
distinguished from each other. But this conceptual distinction does
not correspond exactly to the semantic distinction between the two
terms. It is not entirely accurate to say that mien-tzu is based on
only the amoral attributes; the concept is not altogether devoid of
moral content. Moreover, the terms of mien-tzu and lien are used
interchangeably in some contexts, as their meanings vary according
to the context of usage. Thus, it is hardly surprising that, even
among Chinese subjects, many find it difficult to differentiate one
term from the other (Chu, 1983). This result simply reflects a lack
of clear differentiation at the semantic level; and it would be
wrong to conclude from it that the subjects had difficulty making a
distinction between the moral and the amoral attributes at the
conceptual level.
The second point is that Hu
(1944) described lien primarily in terms of moral character (8).
The concept is actually more encompassing; it includes integrity of
social being (9) as well. An important implication is that lien may
be lost not only through unacceptable conduct, but also through
circumstances beyond one's control. As the cases mentioned above
indicate, the stigmata leading to a fatal damage of lien may not be
due to personal misconduct for which one is held responsible, but to
life's misfortunes for which one cannot be held responsible.
The third point concerns
Hu's (1944) claim that "all persons growing up in any community have
the same claim to lien, an honest, decent 'face'" (p. 62).
Admittedly, in every society, members are normally entitled to the
claim of a basic, decent face, regardless of how humble their social
status may be. It is the minimum, irreducible, and inviolate face
that one must maintain for adequate functioning as a social being.
The loss of this basic face would seriously threaten the integrity
of one's social being or, worse, one's acceptability as a member of
human society. We are tempted to claim that the entitlement to a
basic face is universal. Tragically, we cannot. I was wrong when I
stated: "Lien is something to which everyone is entitled by virtue
of his membership in society and can be lost only through
unacceptable conduct" (Ho, 1976, p. 870). History is replete with
instances where some members of a society are by definition excluded
from the entitlement of lien: invalids, slaves, and members of an
"inferior race" or a lowly caste (e.g., the untouchables in
traditional India). Such exclusion is an expression of prejudice in
its deepest form: the negation of humanhood (a newly coined term).
An individual is judged and treated solely on the basis of group
membership--given a number, but nameless, as in a concentration
camp. There is no individuality, and no individual self. Individual
identity is reduced, and becomes identical, to collective
identity--defective, unclean, even subhuman.
Despite stigmatization, some
people are able to survive psychologically without
self-stigmatization--a fascinating subject for study. Their inner
sense of self remains healthy, even when their outer social identity
is marked with indelible insults. These people are living examples
of the resiliency of the human spirit. They also demonstrate why
the concept of self, as distinct from that of social identity, is
necessary--a point that seems too obvious to make; yet, in cultural
contexts clouded with prejudice, it is far from reaching public
consciousness.
Delineating the audience.
The next step is to delineate the audience or specific group
concerned. The audience may comprise members of a clan,
institution, or social group, formal or informal. The person may or
may not be a member of the group, and no face-to-face interaction is
necessary at this stage of analysis. Obviously, however, the person
must be known to members of the group; and the person must have some
knowledge of how he/she is regarded by the group, if the analysis
includes his/her perceptions of how he/she is perceived by the
group.
How much face a person has
is not fixed in amount, but varies largely according to the audience
making a judgment about the target person's face--an important point
that has largely escaped due attention by researchers. A different
audience, even within the same culture, may attach different weights
to differing attributes in face judgments. For instance, an
academic community would presumably put more weight on intellectual
accomplishment, scholarship, and academic rank; whereas a business
community would put more weight on social connections important for
the promotion of business activities. In quantitative terms then,
face is a composite measure that reflects the relative weights
attached to attributes by the audience. This measure serves to
locate the the individual's position within his/her social network.
It should be added, though, that weights attached to intrinsic
attributes (classes 7 through 9) are much less likely to vary across
audiences than weights attached to extrinsic attributes (classes 1
through 6). That is because intrinsic attributes form the core of
the individual's face, regardless of the group by whom it is
judged. They reveal what the individual is really like as a
person.
Information gathering.
In Table 1, I summarize the kinds of information that are useful and
should be gathered in research studies. (The specific techniques of
data gathering, e.g., actual wording of the questions to be asked,
need not concern us here.) Let X be the target person and Y be
members of the group concerned. The X and the Y within parentheses
represent X's and Y's perception (or perspective) respectively. For
example, "Perception of X's expectation (Y)" reads as: "Y's
Perception of X's expectation."
Table 1
Categories of Information to be
Obtained From X and From Y
Information to be obtained from X
|
1
Entitlement (X) |
How much face are
you entitled to in relation to Y? |
|
2 Actual (X)
|
How much
face do members of Y actually give you? |
|
3
Expectation/ |
How much face do
members of Y think that you expect entitlement (Y) to
receive from them? Or, how much face do members of Y think
you are entitled to? |
|
4 Actual (Y)
|
How much face do
members of Y think they actually give you? |
|
5 Perception
of |
How much
face do members of Y think that you think X's expectation you are
entitled to? How do they perceive your (Y) expectation/claim?
|
Information to be obtained from Y
|
6
Entitlement (Y) |
How much face is X
entitled to in relation to Y? |
|
7 Actual (Y)
|
How much face do
members of Y actually give X? |
|
8
Expectation/ |
How much face does
X expect/claim from Y? Or, how entitlement (X)
much face does X think he/she is entitled to receive from
Y? |
|
9 Actual (X)
|
How much face does
X think members of Y actually give him or her? |
|
10
Perception of |
How much face does
X think that members of Y think Y's judgment(s) X is entitled
to? How does X perceive Y's (X) judgment(s) of
X's expectation/claim, or more generally of X's face? |
Derived measures of
discrepancies. The information gathered will yield different
measures of the target person's face. Measures derived from the
information obtained from members of Y are aggregate measures.
(Individual variation among members of Y need not concern us here.)
Of particular theoretical interest are the derived measures:
discrepancies as perceived by X, discrepancies as perceived by Y,
and discrepancies between perceptions by X and Y. These are
summarized in Table 2.
Table 2
Derived Measures of Discrepancies
Discrepancies as
perceived by X
1 vs. 2 entitlement claimed by X
from Y vs. actuality
1 vs. 3 entitlement claimed by X
from Y vs. Y's judgment(s) of X's expectation
1 vs. 4 entitlement claimed by X
from Y vs. Y's perception of actuality
3 vs. 2 Y's judgment(s) of X's
expectation vs. actuality
3 vs. 4 Y's judgment(s) of X's
expectation vs. Y's perception of actuality
4 vs. 2 Y's perception of
actuality vs. actuality
Discrepancies as perceived by Y
6 vs. 7 entitlement accorded X
by Y vs. actuality
6 vs. 8 entitlement accorded X
by Y vs. X's expectation
6 vs. 9 entitlement accorded X
by Y vs. X's perception of actuality
8 vs. 7 X's expectation vs.
actuality
8 vs. 9 X's expectation vs. X's
perception of actuality
9 vs. 7 X's
perception of actuality vs. actualit
Discrepancies between perceptions
by X and by Y
1 vs. 6 X's vs. Y's assessment
of X's entitlement
2 vs. 7 X's vs. Y's perception
of actuality
3 vs. 6 X's perception of Y's
judgment(s) of X's expectation vs. Y's judgment(s)
of X's expectation
3 vs. 8 X's perception of Y's
judgment(s) of X's expectation vs. Y's perception of X's expectation
4 vs. 9 X's perception of Y's
perception of actuality vs. Y's perception of X's perception of
actuality
5 vs. 8 X's perception of Y's
perception of X's expectation vs. Y's perception of X's expectation
We begin with an analysis of
the information obtained from X, illustrated with an example. X
feels that he/she is entitled to a great deal of face vis-a-vis Y
and, therefore, expects to be treated accordingly by members of Y.
Discomfort is likely to result when X perceives that they do not
give him or her face as expected (1 vs. 2) or, probably worse, do
not think that he or she deserves it (1 vs. 3). The discomfort may
be reduced if X perceives that members of Y merely made a
misjudgment or social blunder: They thought they gave X more face
than X thought they actually did (1 vs. 4).
A socially sensitive X would
also consider how members of Y perceive his or her expectation/claim
(1 vs. 5). Our analysis would then include X's perception of Y's
perception of X's expectation/claim (5), an instance of what a
person thinks others think of him/her. The information obtained
from X (5) may be gauged against that obtained from Y on X's
expectation/entitlement (8); that is, the derived measure (5 vs. 8)
reflects how accurately X perceives Y's perception of how much face
X expects from Y.
Similarly, we analyze the
information obtained from Y. Members of Y will usually give X the
face they consider X is entitled to (6 vs. 7): People generally
give--or at least say they would give--as much face to another
person as what they feel he/she deserves. However, members of Y may
feel that X expects/claims more, or less, than what they think X is
entitled to (6 vs. 8), or what X thinks they give him or her in
actuality (6 vs. 9): more, perhaps because of X's arrogance or
exaggerated sense of self-importance; and less, perhaps because of
X's humility. In a culture where arrogance is eschewed and humility
is held in high esteem, one has to be careful not to appear
arrogant, but humble--otherwise, one's face would suffer.
Paradoxically, people perceived by others to be claiming more face
than is justified weakens their claim, and may even run the risk of
losing face. And people perceived to be claiming less than is
deserved strengthens their claim and may even gain face. Such
people may be said to have understood the underlying principle
involved: face is not to be demanded from others; it is given by
others and, therefore, the important thing is how others judge you
and what they are willing to give you.
We would also include in our
analysis Y's perception(s) of how X perceives their judgment(s) of
his/her face (6 vs. 10). This is an instance of what other people
think a person thinks of their judgment(s) of him/her. Again, the
information obtained from Y (10) may be gauged against that obtained
from X on Y's judgment(s) of X's expectation/entitlement (3). The
derived measure (3 vs. 10) reflects how accurately members of Y
perceive X's perception of how much face they think X expects/claims
from them.
The next set of comparisons
pit the perceptions of X and Y against each other. Derived measures
are obtained from comparing the information obtained from X and that
from Y. The derived measure (1 vs. 6) reflects the discrepancy
between X's and Y's assessments of X's face entitlement in relation
to Y; the measure (2 vs. 7) reflects the discrepancy between X's and
Y's perceptions of how much face members of Y actually give X; the
measure (3 vs. 8) reflects the discrepancy between X's perception of
Y's judgment(s) of X's expectation/entitlement and Y's own
perception of X's expectation/entitlement; and the measure (4 vs. 9)
reflects the discrepancy between X' and Y's perceptions of each
other's perception (i.e., X's perception of Y's perception and Y's
perception of X's perception) concerning how much face members of Y
actually give X. Finally, the measure (5 vs. 10) reflects the
discrepancy between X's perception of Y's perception of X's
expectation/entitlement, and Y's perception about X's perception of
Y's judgment(s) of X's expectation/entitlement.
[(I shall go no farther!)]
The information derived from
this set of comparisons enhances an external observer's
understanding of the social dynamics involved in measuring X's face
in relation to Y. However, it may or may not be known to either of,
or both, X and Y. Consider a rather common example, that of a
professor who feels that he/she is slighted by his/her students.
The office of a professor ordinarily commands respect, and its
occupier would have face vis-s-vis an audience of students. In our
example, the professor likewise thinks highly of himself/herself,
and expects students to give him/her face (1). He/she also assumes
that the students understand that he/she has a high expectation
(3). Unfortunately, the professor has not taken the students'
reactions to his/her high expectation into his/her face calculation
(5). In actuality, the professor is judged by students to be
undeserving (6)--perhaps on account of being widely suspected to be
guilty of sexual harassment, resulting in his/her claim to face
being seriously undermined. A comparison of the professor's and the
students' perceptions reveals that the professor expects much more
from the students than they think he/she is entitled to (1 vs. 6).
But the professor is unaware of this discrepancy, on account of
his/her overestimating the face that the students think he/she
deserves (3 vs. 6). In this way, the professor sets himself/herself
up for disappointment, upon discovering that the face he/she
receives from the students falls short of expectation (1 vs. 2).
In general, large
discrepancies between perceptions of the two interacting parties
will act as a source of strain in their relationship. An adequate
analysis would, therefore, need to consider not only the perceptions
of each party toward the other, but also how accurate and/or
congruent these perceptions are.
Conclusion
In analyzing face dynamics,
we gain insight into the significance of interrelatedness and
interdependence between individuals. Social actions follow not so
much from the individual's own inclinations, sentiments, or needs as
they do from the individual's perception of his or her relationships
with other people--largely conditioned by cultural definitions. The
social presence of others, real or imaginary, is always entered into
the calculus of social actions. Moreover, this process is
bidirectional. One assumes that one's own presence is taken into
consideration by others; in the same way one also assumes that
others assume that their presence is considered by oneself.
In conclusion, the analysis
above, guided by methodological relationalism, serves to illustrate
both the richness and the complexity of the face concept; that it is
not reducible to other constructs currently employed in the social
sciences, such as personality, status, and prestige; and that it is
a potent intellectual tool for the analysis of complex social
interaction. Clearly, relationalism promises to open a new
direction of research into face dynamics, which will, in turn, give
substance to the development of relationalism as a viable
theoretical position on human behavior.
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